You’re Not Alone: What to Do When You Suspect Autism in Your Child

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a neurodevelopmental condition that affects how children perceive the world, communicate, and interact with others. For many families, recognising the early signs of autism can be both confusing and emotional. But one thing is clear: early therapy makes a difference.

At SLCN, we understand how overwhelming it can be when you first suspect your child may be autistic. This guide is here to help you take the next steps with confidence, compassion, and clarity.

Recognising the Signs: What Should You Look For?

Autism presents differently in every child, which is why it’s called a “spectrum.” Some children may show signs in infancy, while others may not display noticeable traits until preschool or even later. Here are some common early indicators:

Social and Communication Differences

• Limited eye contact or facial expressions
• Not responding to their name by 12 months
• Difficulty engaging in back-and-forth interactions (e.g., peekaboo)
• Delayed speech or unusual speech patterns (e.g., echolalia)
• Rarely pointing or showing objects to share interest

Behavioural Patterns

• Repetitive movements (e.g., hand-flapping, rocking)
• Intense interest in specific topics or objects
• Playing with toys in unusual ways (e.g., spinning wheels, lining up items)
• Resistance to changes in routine or environment

Sensory Sensitivities

• Overreacting or underreacting to sounds, lights, textures, or smells
• Seeking out sensory experiences (e.g., rubbing objects on their face)

These signs may appear between 12 and 24 months, but some can be noticed earlier. If you’ve observed any of these behaviours, trust your instincts and take action.

Step 1: Act Early and Talk to a Health Professional

If you suspect your child may be autistic, the first and most important step is to consult a qualified health professional. This could be your:

• GP
• Paediatrician
• Child and family health nurse
• Speech pathologist or psychologist with autism assessment training

Before your appointment, jot down specific behaviours you’ve noticed. Include examples from home, daycare, or school. Educators often provide valuable insights into your child’s social and communication development.

If your concerns aren’t taken seriously, don’t hesitate to seek a second opinion. You know your child best.

Step 2: Begin the Assessment Process

A formal autism diagnosis is typically made by a multidisciplinary team, which may include:

• Paediatricians
• Psychologists
• Speech pathologists
• Occupational therapists

At SLCN, we offer comprehensive assessments tailored to your child’s developmental stage. These assessments involve observing your child’s behaviour, reviewing developmental history, and engaging in structured play and communication tasks.

For children under 9, you may be eligible for early intervention supports even before a formal diagnosis through the NDIS Early Childhood Approach.

Step 3: Explore Early Supports and Therapies

Early intervention is key. Research shows that children who receive support early often require less assistance later in life [1]. At SLCN, we provide a range of evidence-based therapies, including:

Speech Pathology

Supports language development, communication skills, and social interaction.

Occupational Therapy

Helps children with sensory processing, motor skills, and daily living activities.

Behaviour Therapy

Uses structured approaches like Applied Behaviour Analysis (ABA), Pivotal Response Treatment (PRT), and Early Start Denver Model (ESDM) to build skills and reduce challenging behaviours.

Developmental Education

Focuses on holistic learning strategies tailored to your child’s strengths and needs.

These therapies can be delivered at our clinic in Derrimut, at your child’s school or home, or via telehealth across Australia.

Step 4: Understand Funding Options

Navigating funding can be daunting, but you’re not alone. SLCN helps families access:

• NDIS: Children under 9 may qualify for supports without a diagnosis.
• Medicare: Rebates for therapy sessions with allied health professionals.
• Private Health Insurance: Depending on your coverage, you may be eligible for therapy reimbursements.

We guide you through the process, helping you make the most of available resources.

Step 5: Build Your Support Network

Raising a child with autism is a journey best taken with support. Surround yourself with people who understand and uplift you:

• Join local or online parent groups
• Connect with autism associations in Victoria
• Lean on family and friends for practical help

At SLCN, we also offer parent coaching and guidance to help you feel confident and informed.

Step 6: Look After Yourself

One of the most overlooked aspects of autism care is parental wellbeing. But here’s the truth: you can’t pour from an empty cup.

Why Self-Care Matters

Parents of autistic children often experience higher levels of stress, anxiety, and burnout[2]. Taking care of your mental and physical health isn’t selfish—it’s essential.

Self-Care Strategies

• Sleep and Nutrition: Prioritise rest and healthy meals.
• Exercise: Even short walks can boost your mood.
• Boundaries: Say no when needed and delegate tasks.
• Connection: Talk to someone—a friend, therapist, or support group.
• Joy: Make time for hobbies and activities that recharge you.

At SLCN, we encourage families to embrace self-care as part of their therapy journey. When you’re well, your child benefits too.

Step 7: Embrace Neurodiversity

Autism is not a disease to be cured—it’s a different way of experiencing the world. Many autistic children have strengths in visual thinking, rule-based logic, and deep focus on interests.

Learning about neurodiversity helps you:

• Understand your child’s unique perspective
• Advocate for inclusive education and environments
• Choose therapies that celebrate, not suppress, your child’s identity

We recommend reading resources from autistic adults, neurodiversity advocates, and evidence-based organisations.

How SLCN Can Help

At SLCN, we offer a one-stop support hub for families navigating autism. Our services include:

• Developmental assessments
• Speech and language therapy
• Behavioural therapy
• Parent coaching
• School and home visits
• Telehealth sessions

We work with you to create a personalised therapy plan based on your child’s strengths, goals, and developmental needs. Whether you’re just starting out or looking for new strategies, we’re here to help.

Your Next Steps

If you’ve noticed signs of autism in your child:

1. Book an appointment with a health professional.
2. Start early intervention—don’t wait for a diagnosis.
3. Explore funding options like NDIS and Medicare.
4. Build your support network and connect with others.
5. Take care of yourself—your wellbeing matters.
6. Reach out to SLCN for guidance, therapy, and support.

Final Thoughts

Autism is a lifelong journey, but with the right support, autistic children can thrive. They can build meaningful relationships, learn in ways that suit them, and live fulfilling lives.

At SLCN, we believe every child deserves the opportunity to reach their potential—and every parent deserves support along the way.

You’re not alone. We’re here to help.